TIRED OF BEING A NICE GUY? BECOME A CAVEMAN
Women don't want a nice guy. Plain and simple, they really
don’t. Sure you'll always hear her say “I wanna find a nice man who will be very sweet and buy me flowers and be a
gentleman to me”. You're probably thinking hey, if the girl says it then the
girl wants it. Right? No. I’m about to hit you with an all-important and little
known fact about the ladies:
Women
don’t know what they want.
That’s not an insult to our ladies out there. It’s
really not their fault; the mind wants a certain thing but hormones dictate
that you'll move toward something completely different. This is something that
dates back to the caveman era, you simply cannot deny what your hormones want.
For some reason, women’s minds are out of sync with their hormones. They want a
knight in shining armour, a chivalrous prince, but they'll date a
rough-and-tough bad boy. If you're a nice guy, over the course of your years
women have probably told you things like “I wish all men could be like you”,
“You are so sweet” and “I wish I could find a man like you”. Hold it. Wait just
a sec, “I wish I could find a man like you”? What does that tell you? Women, despite what they say they'd wish, are not
dating nice guys.
Now, if you're a nice guy and you're reading this, don't despair. A lot of guys are confused and bitter as to why women won't date
them despite the fact that they’re such sweet, kind and caring men.
I’m gonna
clear that confusion up for you right now using an explanation that dates back
to beginning of man…
The caveman. Who is he? He’s a badass He wrestles
with animals, kills for food, he waits, stalking his prey and leaping out at
the advantageous moment to end the hunt. He brings home the prize: fresh meat
for dinner. He’s a hardcore alpha, skilled, precise, deadly.
This is exactly the kind of man women date.
Hormones dictate that men and women look for partners who have a particular set
of traits, women look for men who are: athletic, confident, dominant,
successful and strong. That, my good men, is what defines a caveman.
Makes
sense right? Women aren’t spiteful creatures who want nice guys to suffer
eternal isolation, no, they're simply following the guidelines that nature has
set for them.
Now it’s time we follow the guidelines nature has set or us men.
You want to break the nice guy stereotype and be a man in demand? Become the caveman!
Nice guys are viewed as soft, gentle, effeminate men
who know jack about how to take charge of their own lives, let alone how to
take care of a woman. You can stomp this nice guy syndrome out once and for all
with these confidence-boosting caveman tips:
- Exercise. It doesn't matter if you’re looking to get a Hugh Jackman body or simply get fit, you must exercise. The caveman didn't have time to lie around eating potato chips, he was out there all day busting his ass to bring home kill. Get yourself in good shape and you'll automatically feel much better about yourself and your confidence level will soar. I guarantee it.
- Learn some important skills. Learn to cook, fix things, build tables, whatever it is, having a skill or two boosts your manliness and helps to get you out of the nice guy stereotype. Don't shy away from learning how to cook, despite the age-old rubbish of cooking being a woman’s job, cooking enables you to sustain yourself without the need for a woman. Real men don't need a woman, they want her.
- You need dominance. It is the pinnacle ofmanliness, a man who can dominate in a situation, take charge and get the job done. How does one go about acquiring dominance? Practice makes perfect, you need to speak to people. Literally walk past someone and go “Hey how’s it going?”. The more people you greet of your own accord, the bigger your balls become and you’ll be ready to walk up to anyone, man or woman, and start talking. This kind of confidence is an invaluable asset
- If you're still wondering how to be successful, skilled, strong and dominant like a caveman, find a role model. It could be an actor, musician, a person you know, basically someone who embodies everything you want to be. Emulate them, take all of the positives and use it to your advantage.
So there you have it. Don't let yourself be boxed
into the nice guy stereotype. Rise above it and become a badass caveman. It’s
not impossible, all it takes is a leap of faith. Oh, and a lot of hard work.
And we're not afraid of hard work, we're men.
-Aaron
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